Going against the flow—whether literally or figuratively—is one of the hardest things a person can do.
Personally, it’s the figurative kind I struggle with most. Questions like “What will people think?”, “What if I fail?”, or “Is it really worth it?” often make it easier to simply blend in. But what if going against the flow wasn’t something to fear—but something to embrace? What if it became a natural part of who we are and how we live?
When we look at the early church, we see a community radically different from the culture around them. So different, in fact, that by the time of Emperor Julian’s reign (AD 361–363), Christianity was viewed as a threat—not because of violence or power, but because of love, generosity, and compassion. These believers welcomed the poor, cared for the sick, and shared meals known as “love feasts,” where everyone was treated with dignity and belonging.
In a world built on status and self-preservation, they chose service and self-sacrifice. They went against the flow—and they did it together.
That’s the beauty of the church. Going against the flow is hard on your own, but in community—and especially with the help of the Holy Spirit—it becomes possible. Even joyful. When we’re shaped by Christ and surrounded by others walking in the same direction, living differently stops feeling like resistance and starts feeling like purpose.
The early Christians weren’t admired for their performance or perfection. They stood out because they were built different. And that difference wasn’t from themselves—it was Christ in them, forming a community the world couldn’t ignore. A community that brought the reality of the Kingdom into the present.
As Paul wrote in Romans 12:2, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” That transformation isn’t just personal—it’s communal. Together, we are called to live in a way that reveals God’s Kingdom now.